Kate and Kanani 

We have a limited hotel block at the Wythe Hotel and recommend staying in Williamsburg or Lower Manhattan.

Plus ones will be listed on the envelope addressed to you as either their name or "and Guest." Due to venue capacity, we can only accommodate invited plus ones.

The wedding events will be for adults only.

For the welcome party, it is Aloha Friday, where we celebrate the end of the workweek and welcome the weekend with open arms. This means casual wear and your best Aloha Shirt (aka Hawaiian shirt for you on the mainland).

Funky Formal. We ask that you wear either floor length gowns, formal cocktail attire, and formal suits or tuxedos.

If you choose to wear a dress, please wear as much color, sequins, or glitter, as possible. We do ask that you please refrain from wearing black and navy blue, if possible.

However, we understand that many suiting options don’t have that color versatility. So for those more comfortable in a traditional suit, we’d love if you jazz up a dark suit with a fun tie or pocket square.

Note: we will be providing coat check for those who would like to change into a less restrictive outfit or sneakers later in the evening to tear up the dance floor.

To RSVP, you can look here.

If you already know you can't make it, please let the couple know via text, call, or email!

Absolutely no gifts, but if you would like, please donate to one of our favorite organizations:

Best Friends Alive

Ali Forney Center

ACLU Drag Defense Fund